I (26F) dont like my boyfriends (25M) family and its causing problems.

2021.09.27 22:11 Elegant-Yam1863 I (26F) dont like my boyfriends (25M) family and its causing problems.

Me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years and lived together 3. I feel bad saying that I don't like spending time with his family. I have stayed at their house (which is a few hours away from where we live) a couple of times in the first year we were dating for weekends and I really didn't like it. Their home is extremely dirty, it's the dirtiest house I've ever been in. I grew up with a mum who was extremely anxious about the house being clean and tidy so I think that has rubbed off on me. They have 3 dogs and 3 cats that all often defecate inside their small house on the carpets and jump all over the furniture and beds and bark non stop. I find it difficult to eat there because the counters are dirty and the plates have cat hairs on them. I am a very quiet and shy person and they are all very loud and shout over each other, have extremely crude and sexual sense of humour that makes me uncomfortable often - his brother in particular has made several sexual jokes about me that was not ok for me. My boyfriend has told me that he saw his dad hit his mum several times when he was younger - I have not witnessed this but in general the men in his family seem very misogynistic and very objectifying/crass about women (except for my boyfriend as he is very sensitive and mostly has female friends so is very respectful). I really find it difficult to pretend to like people when I am so put off them so that is why I avoid them as much as possible. He has noticed and gets upset that I don't want to go and stay there for weekends. I have met them for dinners and things and his parents have stayed with us on the odd occasion but I really don't like spending prolonged periods of time with them. He says family is extremely important to him and if we ever had kids he would want us to go and stay in his family home with them often!!! eeekkk!
On top of all that, they all have very bad relationships with food and constantly talk about going on diets and losing weight (particularly his mum and sister) and commenting on my boyfriends weight (in a nice way - like 'oh you've lost so much weight' - but I don't think its healthy to comment on all the time). We have both struggled with eating disorders and my boyfriend was bullied for being overweight as a child so all that makes me anxious also.
I'm not sure what to do as I was hoping he would be cool with me just seeing them for dinners and I join in on the odd facetime and things and suggested renting an airbnb near his family sometime but he said I would still have to go to their house. Do you think you can be in a happy long relationship if you do not like spending time with their family/going to their home?
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2021.09.27 22:11 MattJ2000 First Date Questions

Hey,
So yesterday I just had my first date with this girl and I thought it went very well. She was complementing me a lot and we had alot of eye contact and touching. The date also went on for 5 hours which I was not expecting. At the end we were standing by her station just still talking for a bit like a kinda didn’t want to leave and I don’t think she did either and then we hugged and after she kissed me or like we both went for it don’t really remember it all happened very fast.
I told her to text me when she’s home and we did and we spoke a bit last night and have texted a bit today but I’ve been very busy with work and she had a job interview.
The problem is I was just getting the sense the messages weren’t as like good as the convo on the date and I know that just might be how she texts coz before the date her texts didn’t sound very enthusiastic and I thought she would cancel the date but it happened so was wrong
I also asked her if she wanted to go out again on Wednesday and she said she’s seeing her friend so I thought oh right yeh it’s not gonna happen so I said that’s fine no worries and I thought that was a good way to allow her to just leave it but then she said yeh she hasn’t seen her in ages and has been meaning to for a while so I just said agin that’s fine we’ll do another time coz I still thought probs not gonna happen. But now she’s said for sure and has asked me about my day and how the stuff I was doing went so I’m just a bit confused. Do you think we’ll go on a second date or should I just leave it and move forward
Thanks
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