2021.10.23 04:22 Clamdak Looking for these. I have 2 universes, combat 2, rb knife, or corl knife to offer.
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2021.10.23 04:22 Creativeweirdo0659 Today I fucked up by helping a mom in need.
Today I fucked up by helping a mom in need. I am in a local group that is mostly a group for gifting toys, or more material items. It benefits those in immediate need but it is for anyone who is interested and not based off of need. Before I get into the details of the story I will say that this is not intended to be rude. It is a story that might help empaths.
I noticed a mom asking for more need based items such as baby food, formula and diapers. My little one recently became potty trained and I had a large box of leftover pull ups.
I asked what size diapers she needed. Then she told me sizes 1 & 5. Knowing mine were not that I looked up some local diaper banks that may help her.
Before I went to reply about the diaper banks she deleted her comment and responded asking what sizes diapers I have.
I explained I have the pull ups and also discussed that I know of local diapers banks that may help.
So when she responded she would take them. I let her know I’ll message her my address.
After I sent her my address she started messaging me continually. I often have given several items and you experience many different experiences..some good and some bad. I have learned to give an item and hope it will help the person regardless if they have been rude to me or kind.
To be honest it was 3 am. I’m disabled and I was tired in a fog unable to sleep. Usually when I gift items to people they do not continue to message me. During this time I was discussing with her I was getting a friend request every five minutes from someone with a different name. I ignored it. I didn’t know the person.
I saw that she informed me that she had another Facebook with a different name that was her real name. She explained she has been trying to add me on that. At the same time most people don’t add me continually and I kept wondering why that was occurring.
I don’t accept people I do not know. I have a child and I’ve been through a lot of trauma so I am careful to who I accept.
I just ignored her messages about the friend request. She let me know she was really in need and appreciated the diapers. She said she would pick them up later today. I said no problem, but she kept trying to add me and let me know she hates her name. This went on all day and she told me this profile she is messaging me on is not her real name.
I just didn’t have energy for that. I’ve had similar situations and just odd experiences with some people in the past when helping people. I just wanted to offer what I could. She seemed very interested in wanting to see my personal information. I will also admit the area she lives is in known to be a high crime area, so I normally would meet up at a store and not give out my address to a stranger in that area. I wasn’t going to be home that morning so I offered my address since she was in need. I also noticed she had 3 friends on her fake name profile and only about 40 friends on her other.
I won’t lie it was starting to make me anxious as I’ve read about people being crime victims relating to these situations. At the same time I couldn’t stop thinking about if I could do more, maybe I should buy her diapers, or formula. I’d hate to have any child be in need. This often happens to me but since I’m also dealing with so much and treatment is not affordable for me I have to remember to do what I can.
I woke up that morning and saw she deleted the post. She was now using her other Facebook to make the posts in the group. She messaged me that she can’t get her diapers. She said that she lost her ride. I offered to drop the items off, but again I am disabled so it wouldn’t be until later in the day.
She said that would work and when it became later asked if I was still coming. She was very short at this point. I assumed she must really need the diapers, but I still felt like I wish I could do more. I started to think if I have any other items I could give her, but I was to tired to go and look and she seemed to need them now. During the entire day she continued to add me every 20 minutes. So at this point I just felt uncomfortable. I wasn’t sure what was going on but my mind still went to I wish I could do more.
So we went to drop off the items. I had my boyfriend walk over and give them. He usually does this since it was cold out and I have difficulty walking and a cold intolerance.
She started to talk to him. Sometime this happens and the person wants to talk forever which can be exhausting for me since talking verbally is also difficult for me. When he got back to the car he essentially let me know that the lady felt I was awkward. She didn’t know why I was acting the way the I was. She said she was grateful for the diapers and we got her whole story. Although, she also asked if we have more if we can give it to her but that I was awkward and she just didn’t like her name.
I honestly didn’t care about her name switch at all. I just led the conversation the way it needed to go so we could complete the needed task. I did not want to be friends with the lady..I just wanted to help her. I knew if I accepted her friend request she has my personal information and I have no clue if she is even real. Two I don’t desire to talk to her nor offend her by saying I don’t want to be her friend.
She messaged me after we left telling me that she told my boyfriend I’m awkward and that she just doesn’t like her name. She said but your boyfriend... he’s nice. I find this so ironic because my boyfriend is kind but he would have just said no if she can’t get them, we will just donate them versus driving a decent chunk of time to find her house and give them to her.
I wasn’t mad. My boyfriend said she was not very cognizant and had very slurred speech. I assumed she was going through something. Yet even after she would unsend the messages and resend them constantly. I feel exhausted as she messaged me like that the whole day, and added me consistently. I am going to block her but I am just exhausted. I truly am not trying to brag at all when I say being an empath and doing the right thing for others can be exhausting.
I know this isn’t the most amazing story. I could probably write a lot better “today I fucked up” stories but this one is important because it’s never talked about how giving isn’t always the right thing. How sometimes you need to just block and let go because it’s not your job to save everyone and it can drain you. I think I just wanted to share this to remind others don’t burn yourself out trying to help others. Do what you can do because that’s enough and know where to draw the line. It’s kind of my life story to always burn myself out to help others then often be in a worse spot then those I helped. So to whoever is another creative weirdo like me do what you can, and don’t deplete yourself trying to help others because then you can’t help anyone.
TLDR: I got burnout trying to help someone else. Make sure you are taking yourself into account when helping others.
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2021.10.23 04:22 HamsterBattle TIFU almost getting hit by a car walking with my 4 y/o son.
This happened today. I (43m) walked my 7 y/o son the mere 4 blocks to school, as I do everyday, bringing along his 4 y/o brother, who stays home with me on Fridays. Today was the first properly rainy day of the fall, and I brought along an oversize umbrella to keep the kids dry. Our short walk is through a relatively quiet neighborhood, however there are 2 streets which have become very popular for morning commuters to use as cut-throughs between the main thoroughfares in town. We often hear cars hauling ass down the street, straining into the single stop sign, and revving the engine into the last stretch through to the main drag.
After dropping my older kid off at school, I walked back home in the rain carefully holding the umbrella over the little brother, who hates rain but loves walks. He moved along at a halted pace to keep the umbrella over his head. We passed one intersection, where a steady stream of cars moving in both directions clearly displayed the delayed reasoning associated with rainy days, but at least seemed to utilize a practical amount of caution when advancing through the intersection, aware of the parade of schoolchildren and parents.
The 2nd intersection on the way back, generally the more quiet of the two, was deserted as me and the boy approached it. About five paces from the street, I could hear a vehicle approaching. We were already moving slow enough to guage the driver's visibility, and we stopped and waited until I was sure they had seen us before moving forward into the street. The white sedan had slowed, stopped, and as we were three steps into the road, revved their engine and charged forward through the intersection. I pushed my son back and, and feeling every drop of adrenaline my body could possess I shouted "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING!" The car braked to a screeching halt a few feet from my legs.
I immediately saw hands raised in apology through the windshield. The driver and passenger both seemed to recognize their transgression, having somehow managed to not see a 6'2" guy with a huge umbrella and a kid in tow. I took a few steps forward, hands out and palms still upturned, when I then saw the driver gesturing and pointing back to the corner I had walked from. I looked behind me and saw my son, who after I pushed him behind me had remained standing in place and had ceased to follow me in front of the car. He stood there with a heartbreaking look on his face, touching his hands together in the way he does when he is scared and uncertain. This made me feel an even greater degree of adrenaline-fueled indignation, and after pacing back, grasping his hand and guiding him across the street, I turned an eye back on the car to see what appeared to be more agitated pointing back at the corner I had left moments ago. At this point I had no intention of trying to understand what they were attempting to communicate, especially as it appeared in the moment to me as an effort to point out that I should have waited at the corner for them to go through.
Not willing to entertain even the slightest fraction of this sentiment, I flipped up my middle finger and proceeded to the end of the crossing. Once across, their way unobstructed, the driver inexplicably lingered. I couldn't make out any reasonable purpose other than shock or anger at having been given a rude gesture, so I thumbed them onward with a "THE FUCK OUTTA HERE." They left.
For the next several minutes, probably up to an hour or so, I was seized in an adrenaline vortex, chest-pounding terror thinking about my kid a few paces ahead of me lodged under a white front bumper, me screaming "back up, back uuuuup," the usual parental nightmare shit... but it was hours later that I realized I couldn't find my keys.
I know I had left the house with them, I typically do, but I don't know that I had locked the house, nor could I recall if I had used them to get back in. It then dawned on me that I had them in my pocket as I walked back from the school, which I had removed to walk my son across the street with. My coat has the tendency to drag things out of the pocket as I withdraw my hand from it. At this point I have come to understand the wild gesturing--I had dropped my keys and the driver of this car, who now had full appraisal of what was in front of them, saw my keys in the street and were trying to inform me of this. I didn't give them a chance to get the message across due to my outrage at them having nearly mortally wounded me and my son. Perhaps more patience and understanding in the moment would have yielded a more favorable outcome? Probably.
I've torn apart my house and retraced the route and not found the keys; I expect they may have been picked up by the driver and thrown down a storm drain, run over, or found themselves in possession of an ill-intentioned opportunist.
So now I'm going to bed, taking a break from researching how to replace a car key fob (several hundreds of dollars), and having to replace the front door and back door doorknobs and deadbolts this weekend, all because I got too pissed off at almost being killed along with my toddler by an unattentive morning commuter.
TL,DR I was almost hit by a car while walking with my toddler, got so angry that I didn't give the driver a chance to let me know I'd dropped my keys. Now I have to spend lots of money replacing car and house keys.
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2021.10.23 04:22 ElinMilani3 Fuck you Jeff
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2021.10.23 04:22 smallbonesofcourage Skewed expectations even after diagnosis
Pondering... I'm pondering something which might prove to be wrong. I hope it's ok to share anyway. So, we know that women have been underdiagnosed due to male based diagnostic criteria. At its core it is also due to that autistic women mask more and the reason for that is that the expectations and demands on women is that they should be adaptable, keep things inside, not allowed to be socially awkward... a part of this that society also have a hard timr valuing invisible disabilities.
Knowing these expectations, I am pondering if we get lesser help after being diagnosed too. Like, there are higher expectations on women to function and find work.
I live in a country with social welfare for disabled people, so this is something that impacts me. I am thinking of if I will have same chances as men to get subsedies or help with finding work or just be believed.
In a report I read on autistic women and motherhood, the women described that they had to make themselves look like they were in pain to receive help at the hospital. They didn't believe her unless she looked allistic while describing that she needs help. This furthers my wondering if the expectations follows us long after diagnosis and that there is a battle to be waged for neurodiverse expressions of pain, illness etc for women that is much higher than for men due to the gender norms.
Please problematize these thoughts with me. It could be totally off, some portion of truth in it or yeah... I've just started thinking and will probably hyperfocus on this for some time so any input is of value.
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2021.10.23 04:22 Superb_Storage7775 Staying on theme with these last few posts, something different next I promise.
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2021.10.23 04:22 AZRA3LCR0W Cursed load?
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2021.10.23 04:22 Canuckhalloween To people who still hitchhike in 2021…Why?
2021.10.23 04:22 Street-Film7282 Some others i got some for trade or sale
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2021.10.23 04:22 riotrhythms what're your "guilty pleasure" makeup holy grails?
for me it's the kylie cosmetics powder blush in pink dreams, i just love how a little goes a long way (which is good because it takes a while for me to achieve the finish i want with powder blush) and i think that specific shade compliments my fair neutral-cool skin so well!
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2021.10.23 04:22 Zader_GUNPLA Revisit old builds, detail them up and add metallic panel lines. Dynamic Poses to follow😊📷 Strike Freedom Daban Destiny Heine Custom DM
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2021.10.23 04:22 AusCOVID19 Roger Cook flags announcements on opening up WA before 80 per cent vaccine hurdle reached
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2021.10.23 04:22 vanessaki_ Spacefolk City Oculus Store Release
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You can find it here: https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/3566126356743668/. You can also read the VR Focus Review here: https://www.vrfocus.com/2021/10/review-spacefolk-city/
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2021.10.23 04:22 boomchacle He took a sniper rifle to the knee through a crack
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2021.10.23 04:22 MaverickGG777 Kaldheim Collector Box Opening Episode 1
2021.10.23 04:22 Gobi_Masala A 5 hour (47 miles) bus journey around Hong Kong for people to sleep on.
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2021.10.23 04:22 TheGuitarGamer Golf is Life!!
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